Monday, July 29, 2013

Paraguayan Fiestas

This past Saturday I went to one of the best parties I have been to in site. It was my neighbor’s 50th wedding anniversary, and they went all out for it! And it got me thinking… In a given week, I am usually invited to some sort of party. Maybe it's a kids birthday, a grandma's birthday, a wake (yes, that is sometimes like a party), a holiday, or a bingo; but there is usually something. I always look forward to these events, although thinking about it, I am not really  sure why. They are awkward, long, and I am ALWAYS forced to dance with someone I don't want to. Since they are pretty entertaining, however, I have decided to describe the 3 most common fiestas in my site.

Little Kid Birthday: Usually I am the photographer, so I show up early to help blow up balloons and take pics. The little girl can usually be found in a princess dress, and the boys in the nicest shirt they own. As people show up, they hand the little kid a present, kiss them on the cheek, and then sit in circle. Then, you wait while the birthday kid takes photos with all the families invited. The hosts will pass out chocolate milk and cookies, which the kids scarf down in seconds. After that the birthday kid will blow out the candles -- twice. They sing happy birthday once with the girls, blow the candles out, and then repeat with the boys. Then it's cake time, popping a balloon piñata, and leaving. They usually knock these bad boys out in an hour or two, so that's always nice!
Dana in her princess dress
Popping the pinata!
Thiago celebrating at school!
Grandma's Birthday: This is usually a longer and more drawn out ordeal than the little kid's. While there are no balloons, piñatas, or princess dresses; they have their own customs. If the family has a little money, they will hire a Paraguayan guitarist or trio to play music throughout the party. Then they will make SO MUCH SOPA in the tatakua, cook up a nice asado of some gigantic pieces of meat, drink terere (and quickly move on to beer/whiskey/cana). After lunch is served, the dance party begins. I am usually suckered into dancing with the drunk uncle, because everyone LOVES to laugh at the norte dancing to Guarani Polka. Sometimes I will spend 5 hours at these things, and by the time I leave, the party is just really getting started. They start a lunch and go all day, because... why the hell not!
Drunk uncle #1
Drunk Uncle #2

Typical Paraguayan trio
Bingo: Bingos are a huge way to fundraise for the high school or elementary schools here, and so they happen pretty frequently. You show up to a house, and they have circled off a designated party area. It costs 5 mil to enter ($1.25), and that gets you a bingo card. Bingo is not really the main purpose of the party, however. It's really just an opportunity for high schoolers and people who never left town to hire a DJ, drink, and dance. I avoided these to start because I wasn't all that comfortable drinking in public at site, but now I am over it... haha. I always go with Silvia, my bestie, who LOVES to dance. This should be awesome, but the concept of group dancing does not exist here. You need a partner. So this means I get up and dance with her, and we are quickly approached. I tend to attract 16 year olds, drunk host brothers, or a random guy I have never seen before. Fun stuff. (But really, it is fun... and I will continue to attend these)
wooooooo RiSo and I partying with high schoolers!


A little different from the party scene I left in the states... But, as awkward as they all are, they have their charm. At the anniversary over the weekend, I spent 10 hours at the house, and got two marriage proposals! Definitely a great party!

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

June

June has always been one of my favorite months. School’s out for summer, it’s warm enough to go boating, summer concerts are in full swing, and it’s my birthday! And while I don’t have access to a lot of the things that make June such an amazing month back home, it turned out to be pretty fabulous time here as well. It was jam packed and fun filled, so settle in – this is gonna be a long post!

Cooking
For some reason, I cooked with SO many people this month! Usually they cook for me, but this time we cooked more American meals together. Various items we made include bean burgers, tortilla chips and guacamole, tacos, healthier empanadas, Chicago style hot dogs, and zucchini and eggplant pizza! Heterei (delicious)!!!
bean burgers!
chicago style hot dogs!
Rally
After returning from Chile, Silvia, informed me a car race was happening in site on June 1st. Needless to say, I was veryyyy confused. But, sure enough, come Saturday morning signs were being put up and people started lining up at the plaza to watch. The cars were racing for time, so about every 3-5 minutes a car would zoom down the red dirt road. Not gonna lie, it was pretty hilarious! I ended up having a super fun day with Silvia and her cousin Cristian, and even got to keep a road sign as a memory!


I’m going to be a godmother!
My neighbor (and one of my closest friends here in site) is 4 months pregnant. She has been keeping it on the down low, but at the beginning of the month asked me to be the baby’s godmother, which I am super excited about! The baby is due in November, and I am seriously looking forward to spoiling him/her J I feel so fortunate that she considers me close enough to ask, and now I will have another connection to my community forever!

Como Planear mi Vida (CPMV)
CPMV is a program I have been looking forward to starting in site, and finally got to it the first week in June! It is a course used throughout Latin America designed to help high school students with situations they will encounter throughout their lives. Themes include good communication, self-esteem, values, stereotypes, establishing objectives, decision making, gender roles, HIV/AIDS, and education/career planning. I am doing the course every Wednesday with 10th grade and Thursday with 11th (as long as it doesn’t rain…). It took the kids a little to get comfortable with my teaching style (which promotes sharing ideas – something they are not used to), but they are starting to come out of their shell! I had one student tell me my class is her favorite of the week, which of course made me feel awesome J

Ovecha Rague
A big wool festival that happens about 45 minutes from my site happens every June. I couldn’t make it last year, so was really excited to go this year! About 7 other people from my VAC and I went. I only went for Friday, which I am kinda bummed about since the main festival is Saturday and Sunday. But there were still tons of stands to peruse and I had a great time catching up with volunteers.
some of the wool stands
love me some G38!
Eco-Brick Benches
As a VAC-wide (volunteers in my department) project, we decided to build eco-brick benches in at least 80% of volunteer sites. We built the first one June 14th in my neighbor, Stacy’s, site. Eco-bricks are plastic bottles filled to the brim with trash. Once the bottle is completely stuffed, it can be used just like a normal brick. For the bench, we used 24 plastic bottles and some mezcla (a mixture of dirt, sand, cement and water), and built an extremely sturdy bench!
excited kiddos!
the start of the bench
I am currently planning on building mine by the end of September. I am working with the 12th grade kids, who each have to contribute a bottle. Once we have everything we need, we will take a day off school to build it! I’ll update once the project is finished in site.

Ide’s Quince
Ide (pronounced ee-day) is a girl in my community who is deaf. I have spent a lot of time with her, although I still struggle to communicate. She has a form of signing she uses, but it is something she and her family developed, so I don’t understand it. She started off in school, but because the teachers aren’t trained to teach students with disabilities, she had to drop out. Because of that, she can’t read or write. Amazingly, though, that has not gotten her spirits down. She is smiling every time I see her, and easily has one of the best attitudes around.

On the 15th, we celebrated her Quince in site! She looked beautiful in her dress, and it was wonderful to see how even though she can’t communicate well with that many people, she is loved by so many. Her patio was overflowing with guests, there was more meat than I had ever seen prepared, and I don’t think a smile left her face the entire night. It was a wonderful evening!

that's a lot of meat....
Fiesta Patronal/My Birthday
On the 29th, my community celebrates its Patron Saint day. The festivities started Friday night, with the annual Pelota Tata (where they kick flaming balls of fire around, often times at us innocent bystanders watching!). That night there is also a competition where the men will climb a greased pole, where they can find bags full of cana, the local liquor at the top. It’s a pretty hilarious night!
guy running around with a flaming bull structure
the greased pole with booze at the top haha
On Saturday the 29th is the actual celebration. My friend Spencer came to visit for the day, which was lots of fun! The day starts with a procession around the plaza and church. Then I went back and enjoyed a delicious lunch with a family, drank beer and watched soccer in the plaza, and relaxed in the afternoon. At night, we cooked tacos and prepared to go out to the huge party in town. Spencer and I decided to get our hair done like Paraguayans, and danced the night away!
procession before church
horse races!
delicious lunch!
paraguayyyyy

paraguayan hair!
On Sunday, my actual birthday, I kept it low-key. I visited my contact and her family, and enjoyed talking to friends and family back in the states. Thanks to everyone who sent messages!!


So, as you can see, June was packed with activities! Hope you all had a wonderful month, and have a fabulous 4th!

And as a reminder, I am planning a Sexual Health workshop with a few other volunteers in my area, and we need your help! If you are interested, please click the link below. And if you are financially unable, spread the word to your family and friends! Thanks so much!!